The Basics

Celebrations of life, explained

Clear, compassionate answers to the questions people actually ask — what a celebration of lifeis, how it differs from a traditional funeral, and how to plan one that feels like the person it honors.

• What is a celebration of life?What it is, how it differs from a funeral, who plans it, and when it's held.
• Celebration of life vs. funeralA clear side-by-side — tone, structure, timing — and whether you can have both.
• What do you do at a celebration of life?The typical flow — stories, music, food, photos, and a toast.
• What is a death doula?The non-medical guide who supports a dying person and their family.
• What is a living funeral?A celebration held while the guest of honor is still alive to hear it.
• What is a living wake?A wake-style gathering held while the guest of honor is still here.